We are all influenced by the people around us. Whether it's our friends, family, colleagues, or even strangers on social media, the opinions and actions of others can shape our own behavior and attitudes. But have you ever stopped to consider the impact that you, as an individual, can have on your own community of influence?

Your community of influence refers to the group of people you interact with on a regular basis, whether in person or online. It could be your immediate family, your coworkers, your friends, or your social media followers. These are the people who are most likely to be affected by your words and actions, and who are also most likely to influence you in return.

At Dress for Success Greater New York City we know that building your personal community of influence impacts your overall success.  We work with women across the five bouroughs to coach and train skills that allow learners to build successful communities of influence and in return achieve their greatest potential. 

So, how can you make a positive impact on your community of influence?

1. Be a role model. One of the most powerful ways to influence others is to lead by example. If you want your community to value kindness, empathy, and respect, make sure you embody those values in your own words and actions. Show others how to be the best version of themselves by being the best version of yourself.
2. Listen actively. When someone in your community comes to you with a problem or concern, take the time to truly listen and understand their perspective. This shows that you value their opinion and are invested in their well-being, which can help build trust and strengthen your relationships.
3. Share your knowledge. If you have expertise or experience in a particular area, consider sharing that knowledge with others in your community. Whether it's through mentoring, teaching, or simply sharing articles or resources, you can help others learn and grow.
4. Give back. Volunteering your time, resources, or skills to your community can be a powerful way to make a positive impact. Whether it's helping out at a local charity, organizing a community event, or simply lending a helping hand to someone in need, your actions can inspire others to do the same.
5. Be mindful of your words and actions. Remember that everything you say and do can have an impact on those around you. Before you speak or act, take a moment to consider how your words or actions might be perceived by others. Are you being inclusive and respectful?

One way to reflect on your influence is to ask yourself "am I contributing to a positive atmosphere?  I often say that before your feet event hit hte floor in the morning - you decide what kind of day you are going to have.  Make sure you give yourself what you need to start the day off "on the right foot!"

By taking these steps, you can become a positive force in your own community of influence. While it can feel overwhelming to be a positive influencer in your world, remember that if you focus on the present, you can certainly make a difference in the lives of those around you. So, go out there and be the change you want to see in your community!

Download the Dress for Success Greater New York City Community Of Influence Planning Page Here.